Is our family in two homes for me / us?

If you answer yes to any of the below questions – please talk to us to see whether this trust and communication based approach to divorce will meet your needs.

• Do you want to retain an ongoing relationship with your (ex) partner(s) after divorce?
• Do you want to continue to co-parent (ie health, education, approach to discipline) / be actively involved in the lives of your children together but apart
• Do you think you can, with help from our team, agree your property division with your (ex) spouse using open communication and full disclosure of information?
• Do you want to avoid internal family battles and conflict that may have long term ramifications?
• Do you want to role model proactive, solutions focused problem solving to your children or social circles?
• Do you want to be an active part of the solution?
• Is accountability and responsibility in this process important to you?

What are the advantages of using tools like Our Family in Two Homes?

• You retain control: The conversation is controlled by you and your (ex) partner(s) and what is important to you and your family.
• Relationships are different but intact: Walk away with dignity and relationships which are different but intact.
• Move at your pace: Move at your pace (compared to Court directed timetable).
• Feel heard: a chance to tell your story.
• Forward looking: this is an investment in the future of your family – albeit a different shape and feel to the one before.
• Puts the human and the person at the centre of the process: retain dignity, confidence and respect.
• It respects all kinds of relationships: The Our Family in Two Homes model respects all kinds of families – including Rainbow families, polyamorous relationships, cross border relationships and everything in between.
• It helps put you and your (ex) partner(s) in a position to hold deeper discussions as time passes and the needs of your children (and your response to them) changes: Many couples want to improve communication strategies before, during and after separation and divorce to focus on the wellbeing of any children.
• Communication friendly: healthy communication is vital to making a healthy transition to two (or more) homes. We can help you work together to put great communication building blocks in place. The workbook helps you prepare to have important conversations – with help! This way, you can ease tension and focus on what matters to you and your family.
• It works: Our Family in Two Homes is successfully used by couples and families – regardless of gender, sexuality or number – all over the world.

The typical process for Our Family in Two Homes approach to divorce

Obviously, every family is different and the process you and your (ex) partner(s) follow will also be unique to you and the needs of your family. It is one of the fantastic things about using Our Family in Two Homes – it works around you! You may need fewer meetings than that outlined below – you may need more!

We can refer your (ex) partner(s) to trusted legal counsel who will work alongside us and you as part of this process.

The workbook is a resource that combines the knowledge of an experienced professional with a comprehensive workbook – to help you reach an agreement that works for your family.